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I don't know where I'm at. I'm standing out the back and I'm tired of waiting. Waiting here in in line hoping that I'll find what I've been chasing. Not ready to let go 'cause then I'll never know what could be missing. But I'm missing way too much. When do I give up What I've been wishing for?

What a shame.

— 8 months ago

I miss you. I miss you all the time.

— 10 months ago

Such an idiot. Have got to make better decisions in life and get it together.

— 11 months ago
All you need is love

You are such an idiot.

— 11 months ago
Happiness

I just want to be happy. I’ve spent too many years being bitter and angry about things I couldn’t control. Too many years of constantly trying to prove myself. Today at the age of 23 I do admit I pretty much love my life. Its a million times better than what I’ve ever imagined it to be. I’ve graduated college. I got a good job. I drive a nice car. I can buy practically anything I want. I am in a good relationship. But somehow I find that there’s still something missing. Why can’t I just be happy?

— 12 months ago
418783:

I just want to capture this moment and put it in a little bottle :)22: graduate 23: get a job 24: pastry school :)25: pretty car25-30: work and travel live and enjoy life. :)

Dear tumblr, when we last spoke I was down. Down on life. Down on faith. But today, actually these last couple of months in general I can honestly say that I’ve never been so happy. I got hired by a distribution center for the season in back in November. The day before I found out the center had decided to keep me permanently I got offered a job that I’ve applied for back in August. I went to training and my first official day at my current workplace was 23rd birthday. I want to believe it was life’s gift to me. I recently just bought my first car too a couple weeks ago, a 2013 Honda civic ex. I call it my baby. I got myself an iPhone 4S today too.  My sweetie and I are doing great too. We’ve just celebrated our 8th year anniversary by the beach a couple of weeks ago. Overall I am just feeling like I am on top of the world. I love my sweetie, my car, my job, and I just really really love my life. :)

418783:

I just want to capture this moment and put it in a little bottle :)
22: graduate
23: get a job
24: pastry school :)
25: pretty car
25-30: work and travel
live and enjoy life. :)

Dear tumblr, when we last spoke I was down. Down on life. Down on faith. But today, actually these last couple of months in general I can honestly say that I’ve never been so happy. I got hired by a distribution center for the season in back in November. The day before I found out the center had decided to keep me permanently I got offered a job that I’ve applied for back in August. I went to training and my first official day at my current workplace was 23rd birthday. I want to believe it was life’s gift to me. I recently just bought my first car too a couple weeks ago, a 2013 Honda civic ex. I call it my baby. I got myself an iPhone 4S today too. My sweetie and I are doing great too. We’ve just celebrated our 8th year anniversary by the beach a couple of weeks ago. Overall I am just feeling like I am on top of the world. I love my sweetie, my car, my job, and I just really really love my life. :)

— 1 year ago with 1 note
Top 10 Interesting Psychology Facts

psych-facts:

1. Cognitive Dissonance - the idea that when we hold two conflicting thoughts or beliefs, we unconsciously adjust to make one fit with the other. My social psychology professor gave an example of a student who values studying all the time, but slacks off when it comes to their favorite television show. So the student tells herself that watching the television helps her study later when it really doesn’t. However, telling herself that helped her eased the anxiety. 

2. Hallucinations are common - one third of people report experiencing hallucination at some point in time. Similarly, normal people often have paranoid thoughts. So when was the last time you hallucinated? 

3. The Placebo effect - this is when you think that something like a drug has an effect on you when really it doesn’t. It’s your thoughts that actually resulted in you getting better. 

4. Obedience to Authority -authorities or people in power can really control our behaviors. In Stanley Milgram’s famous study, 63% of participants kept giving electric shock to another human being just because someone in authority was telling them to. 

5. Choice Blindness - we are not very good at making choices and understanding why we made those choice. When we make a decision, even if the decision is not good, we tend to rationalize why decision is the best. 

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COUNSELLING BLOG: How to Stop Worrying →

onlinecounsellingcollege:

1. Prepare for the worst but hope for the best. In reality, few of our worries actually become a reality. However, if you prepare in advance for things going wrong, you’ll have strategies available to cope and survive.

2. Write a list of everything you think you need to do, and then tick them…

— 1 year ago with 2309 notes